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First, A Prayer From Me to You

My marriage is still a work in progress.
Becoming a God-centered woman is still a work in progress.
I am still a work in progress — yet I stand as living proof that God meets us right where we are and lovingly leads us forward.

If you are walking through something heavy…
If your marriage feels fragile…
If your heart feels tired but still hopeful…
If you’re choosing not to give up on God, even when the process feels slow…

Then here is my prayer to you:

I pray,
God will steady your heart, strengthen your steps, and surround you with His peace.
That He will meet you in the very places that feel undone and gently breathe life back into them.
That He will refine you, restore you, and remind you that nothing about your story disqualifies you from His love.
May you feel His nearness, His comfort, and His promise that you are being shaped for something greater.

Amen.

My Vision

Why Restored & Refined was born:

Who This 
Space Is For:

What You'll
Find Here:

I want women to know; with God, your circumstance can change. Your marriage can change. Your spouse can change. And most importantly…

YOU can change.

But, the hard part was…God had to start with me. I had to  change first.

I went from being a woman who:

  • felt the need to speak my mind every time

  • reacted out of fear and insecurity

  • pointed fingers

  • tried to control everything

  • sought validation

  • let emotions lead

To a woman who is becoming:

  • someone who prays with expectancy

  • rooted in God’s Word

  • a Proverbs 31 wife in training

  • peaceful in my responses

  • surrendered instead of controlling

  • committed to honoring God more than winning arguments

  • learning, just as 1 Peter teaches, to influence my home through actions rather than words

I know what it feels like to struggle quietly, to pray silently, and to hope deeply for change.
And I wanted a space where women could grow, heal, pray,

and become refined together.

I pray my journey encourages you, lifts you, and reminds you that God is not finished with your story.

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This platform is for women like me, Christian women who have walked through valleys, heartbreak, or marital fires, yet still dare to hope in God’s promises.

Also for:

  • wives rebuilding

  • women healing

  • single women preparing

  • women desiring God-centered relationships

  • women resisting cultural norms to become who GOD truly called them to be

  • women seeking accountability, refinement, and intentional growth

  • women learning that perfection isn’t required, but obedience and effort are

A place for women becoming refined.
Not perfect wives, but purposeful wives.
Not perfect women, but becoming women.

Who This Space Is For

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What You’ll Find Here

  • Encouragement

  • Biblical wisdom for marriage & womanhood

  • Tools for emotional and spiritual endurance

  • Resources for refinement

  • Sisterhood & community

  • Hope when everything feels heavy

  • A place to celebrate small victories only faith-filled women understand

The answered prayers.
The softened hearts.
The subtle shifts.
The moments where God whispers, “I am still working.”

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